Wannan Matar Tayi Nadamar Rage Nauyin Daurin Auren Ta

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Yawancin matan da za a yi aure suna # gumi don bikin aure a kokarinsu na ganin sun yi kyau a babban ranarsu. Amma mai tasirin motsa jiki Alyssa Greene tana tunatar da mata kada su yi nisa sosai. (Mai Dangantaka: Dalilin da yasa na yanke shawarar Ba Zan Rage Nauyi don Bikina ba)

A cikin sakon Instagram na baya -bayan nan, Greene ta waiwaya baya kan tsarin shirin aure kuma tana fatan ba ta yi wa kanta wahala ba. Ta rubuta "Shekaru biyu da suka wuce ina shirin bikin aure na. Na damu sosai ba zan iya cin abinci ba, ba ni da abinci. Zan yi kuka idan na dauki ranar hutu marar shiri," in ji ta. "Auren ku abin gwanin rayuwa ne mai ban mamaki; kuma ko ta yaya an shardanta mu mu yarda da [ƙarami] mu ... mafi kyau da cancantar sanya rigar da muke zama. Amma wanene ma ya kafa wannan ma'aunin?!?"

Greene tun daga lokacin ya sake dawo da duk nauyin kuma ya sami farin ciki, daidaitaccen lafiya. Kuma ita babbar mai ba da shawara ce ga lafiyar jiki, tana gargadin mabiyanta game da hatsarori na ƙuntataccen abinci.

"Ina tsammanin sau da yawa mata suna matsa wa kansu lamba don samun wannan mummunar asarar nauyi don bikin aure lokacin da suka riga sun yi kyau kamar yadda yake," in ji ta. Siffa. "Kusan ya zama kamar cin abinci mai haɗari. Kuna tafiya watanni da watanni yana ƙuntatawa sannan kuma menene? ​​Mata suna buƙatar tunawa cewa akwai bambanci tsakanin asarar nauyi, samun 'daidai' da tafiya gaba daya da nisa, tilasta wa kanku rasa kowane fam na karshe. Babu wani abu. ba daidai ba tare da son ganin kyawun ku, amma dole ne ku tambayi kanku, akan wane farashi?"

Ka tuna: "Yakamata ku ji kamar mafi kyawun mutum a ciki da waje a ranar bikin ku, kuma kada ku ji rashin isa saboda wasu adadin da kuke gani."

Don haka ko da kuna ƙoƙarin tsarawa don babban taron ku, ra'ayoyinta abin tunatarwa ne mai kyau don sanya lafiyar ku da lafiya. farin ciki na farko.

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