Ashley Graham Ya Raba Darussan Rayuwa Game da Siffar Jiki da Godiyar da ta Koya Daga Mahaifiyarta

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Ashley Graham yana ɗaukar ɗan lokaci don yaba duk uwayen da ke wurin waɗanda ke riƙe da ƙarfi yayin cutar ta coronavirus (COVID-19).

A cikin bidiyon da aka raba kwanan nan a matsayin wani ɓangare na sabon jerin #takeabreak na Instagram, ƙirar mai shekaru 32 ta gaya wa mabiyanta cewa ta shafe makwannin da suka gabata tare da iyalinta, ciki har da mahaifiyarta.

"Na yi ta tunani a kan abin da ta koya mini da kuma abin da zan koya wa ɗana," Graham ya faɗa kafin ya jera darussa shida masu muhimmanci da mahaifiyarta ta koya mata waɗanda suka taimaka mata ta zama mutumin da take a yau.

Don farawa, Graham ya ce mahaifiyarta ta koya mata jagoranci ta hanyar misali. "Yadda kuke tafiyar da rayuwar ku yana nufin fiye da abin da kuke gaya wa yaranku kawai," in ji ta a cikin bidiyon. "Idan kun gaya musu su kyautata wa wasu, sun fi kyau gani kana kyautatawa wasu."

Ga Graham, babban muhimmin misalin da mahaifiyarta ta kafa shine cewa ba ta taɓa kushe jikinta ba, in ji ta. Ta ci gaba da cewa "Maimakon haka ta rungumi 'kura -kuranta' kuma ba ta ma gano su a matsayin kurakurai ba." "Tayi magana akan k'arfin k'afafunta, da k'arfin hannunta, kuma ta sanya ni yaba k'arfin k'afafuna da k'arfin hannuna, har yau."

ICYDK, akwai wani lokaci a cikin aikin Graham da ta so ta daina yin tallan kayan kawa saboda munanan kalamai da take samu game da jikinta. A cikin hirar 2017 da V Mujallar, samfurin ya gaya wa Tracee Ellis Ross cewa mahaifiyarta ce ta gamsar da ita don ta dage da yin gwagwarmayar mafarkinta. (Mai alaƙa: Ashley Graham Ta Ce Ta Ji Kamar "Bare" A cikin Duniyar Modeling)

"Na ji haushi da kaina na gaya wa mahaifiyata cewa zan dawo gida," in ji Graham a lokacin, yayin da yake magana game da farkon farkonta a birnin New York. "Kuma ta ce da ni, 'A'a, ba haka ba ne, saboda ka gaya mani cewa abin da kake so ke nan kuma na san ya kamata ka yi haka, ba kome ba game da jikinka, saboda jikinka. ya kamata ya canza rayuwar wani.' Har zuwa yau wannan yana manne da ni saboda ina nan yau kuma ina jin cewa ba laifi a sami cellulite. ” (Mai Alaƙa: Ƙarfafa Mantra Ashley Graham Yana Amfani da Ji Kamar Mugu)

A yau, kun san Graham a matsayin wanda ba kawai yake da kwarin gwiwa ba, amma kuma wanda ya koyi yin watsi da ra’ayoyin mutane, kuma hakan yana cikin sashi saboda ingancin kamuwa da ita - wani darasi mai mahimmanci da mahaifiyarta ta koya mata, in ji ta.

Ci gaba a cikin bidiyon ta, Graham ta raba cewa mahaifiyarta ta koya mata samun farin ciki a kowane hali - darasi wanda ya kasance mai taimako musamman a yayin barkewar cutar sankara, in ji Graham. Ko da lokacin da Graham ya ji damuwa, ta yi iya bakin kokarin ta don ta “kasance mai nagarta da kwanciyar hankali” a kusa da dan jaririnta, Isaac, saboda har yanzu kunnuwan suna sauraro, ”in ji ta.

Graham ta kasance a bayyane game da ikon tabbataccen tabbaci a rayuwarta a baya, tana raba yadda mahimmancin aiwatar da son kai da godiya. (BTW, kimiyya ta ce kyakkyawan tunani yana aiki da gaske; har ma yana iya taimaka muku tsayawa kan halaye masu kyau.)

Na gaba, Graham ya yaba wa mahaifiyarta don ta koya mata ƙimar kyakkyawar dabi'ar aiki (jinkirta babban ba-a'a, ta kara da cewa) da mahimmancin bayarwa. Samfurin ya kuma lura cewa tallafawa wani ko wata hanyar da kuke damuwa ba lallai ne ta ƙunshi sadaka ta gargajiya ko aikin sa kai ba. A zahiri, kwanakin nan, yana iya zama mafi sauƙi fiye da haka, in ji Graham.

"A yanzu, bayar da tallafi na iya nufin kasancewa a gida ga waɗanda ba za su iya ba," in ji ta, tana mai nuni da nesantawar jama'a yayin barkewar cutar sankara, da gaskiyar cewa muhimman ma'aikata ba su da niyyar zama a gida. (Graham yana ɗaya daga cikin mashahurai da yawa waɗanda suka shiga cikin ƙalubalen #IStayHomeFor akan Instagram don taimakawa hana yaduwar coronavirus.)

Darasi na ƙarshe Graham ta ce ta koya daga mahaifiyarta: godiya. "Mahaifiyata koyaushe tana koya mani in duba ko'ina kuma in yi godiya ga abin da muke da shi ba abin da ba mu da shi," in ji Graham a cikin bidiyon ta. "Kuma hakan na iya nufin wani abu kamar godiya ga lafiyar ku ko kasancewa cikin keɓe har yanzu mutanen da kuke ƙauna suna kewaye da ku." (Fa'idodin godiya na halal ne - ga yadda ake samun mafi kyawun aikin godiya.)

A cikin taken bidiyon ta, Graham ta raba wani tunatarwa don ci gaba da yin nisantar da jama'a - ba kawai a matsayin hanyar taimakawa rage yaduwar COVID-19 ba, har ma a matsayin hanyar nuna godiya "ga wadanda ke aiki tukuru don kiyayewa. mu tafi, "gami da muhimman ma'aikata kamar ƙwararrun masu kula da lafiya, ma'aikatan kantin kayan miya, masu ɗauke da wasiku, da sauran su.

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