Menene Electra Complex da Yadda za'a magance shi

Wadatacce

• Yadda ake gano hadadden Electra
• Shin rukunin Electra yayi kama da na Oedipus?
• Lokacin da zai iya zama matsala
• Yadda ake ma'amala da wutar lantarki

Complexungiyar Electra wani yanki ne na yau da kullun na cigaban rayuwar mostan mata wanda yake da tsananin kauna ga uba da jin haushi ko ƙiyayya ga uwa, kuma yana iya yiwuwa ma yarinyar ta yi ƙoƙari ta yi gogayya da uwar. don kokarin samun hankalin mahaifin.

Gabaɗaya, wannan matakin yana bayyana tsakanin shekaru 3 zuwa 6, kuma yana da sauƙi, amma yana iya bambanta gwargwadon yarinyar da matsayin ci gabanta. A mafi yawan lokuta, rikitarwa na faruwa ne saboda mahaifin shine farkon saduwa da yarinyar da kishiyar jinsi.

Koyaya, za'a iya samun girlsan matan da wannan rukunin bai bayyana ba, musamman lokacin da suke hulɗa da wasu yara tun suna ƙanana, farawa da haɗuwa da wasu yara maza waɗanda ke jan hankalin maza da mata.

Yadda ake gano hadadden Electra

Wasu alamun da zasu iya nuna cewa yarinyar tana shiga cikin rukunin Electra sun hada da:

• Bukatar koyaushe sanya kanka tsakanin uba da uwa don ka raba su;
• Kuka mara karfi lokacin da uba ke bukatar barin gidan;
• Jin tsananin so ga uba, wanda zai iya haifar da yarinya ga fatar baki game da auren mahaifin wata rana;
• Mummunan tunani ga uwa, musamman idan uba yana nan.

Wadannan alamun na al'ada ne kuma na wucin gadi ne, don haka bai kamata su zama damuwa ga iyaye ba. Koyaya, idan suka ci gaba bayan shekaru 7 ko kuma idan sun ƙara lalacewa a kan lokaci, yana iya zama mahimmanci a ga likitan likitan kwakwalwa don tabbatar da cutar da fara magani, idan ya cancanta.

Shin rukunin Electra yayi kama da na Oedipus?

A gindinta, tsarin Electra da Oedipus sunyi kama. Yayinda ƙungiyar Electra ke faruwa a cikin yarinyar dangane da jin ƙarancin soyayya ga mahaifin, rukunin Oedipus yana faruwa a cikin yaro dangane da mahaifiyarsa.

Koyaya, likitocin daban ne suka fassara hadaddun, kuma asalin Oedipus Freud ne ya bayyana shi, yayin da daga baya kuma Carl Jung ya bayyana hadadden Electra din. Duba ƙarin game da hadadden Oedipus da yadda yake bayyana ga yara maza.

Lokacin da zai iya zama matsala

Electungiyar Electra yawanci tana warware kanta, kuma ba tare da wata babbar matsala ba, yayin da yarinyar ta girma kuma take lura da yadda mahaifiyarta ke aiki dangane da jinsi ɗaya. Bugu da kari, uwa kuma na taimakawa wajen kafa iyakoki a cikin alakar da ke tsakanin 'yan uwa, musamman tsakanin uba-uwa da' ya-uba.

Koyaya, lokacin da mahaifiya ta kasance ba ta halarci taron ko kuma hukunta ɗiyarta kan abin da ta aikata a wannan lokacin na rayuwarta ba, hakan na iya haifar da cikas ga ƙudurin halitta na rikitarwa, wanda ke haifar da yarinya ta ci gaba da ƙaƙƙarfan ƙaunarta ga uba, wanda na iya zama ƙarshe da jin soyayya, wanda ke haifar da ingantacciyar hanyar warware matsalar Electra.

Yadda ake ma'amala da wutar lantarki

Babu wata hanya madaidaiciya da zata magance ma'anar Electra, kodayake, ba da kulawa sosai ga yanayin soyayyar da aka faɗa wa uba da guje wa ladabtar da yarinyar game da waɗannan abubuwan kamar suna taimaka wajan shawo kan wannan matakin da sauri kuma ba shiga cikin hadaddun ba. na Electra talauci warware.

Wani muhimmin mataki shi ne nuna matsayin uba, wanda duk da cewa na soyayya ne, kawai yana kare ta ne kuma babban abokin sa shine uwa.

Bayan wannan matakin, 'yan mata yawanci suna daina nuna ƙiyayya ga uwa kuma sun fara fahimtar matsayin iyayen biyu, suna fara ganin uwa a matsayin abin tunani kuma uba a matsayin abin koyi ga irin mutanen da suke son rana tare da su. .