Kyakkyawan Dadi Mai Kyau Wanda Ya Kara Kawo Masa

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Babu wani abu da ya sa ka ji daɗi game da kanka kamar ba da rancen taimako ga wanda ke bukata. (Gaskiya ne, yin ƙananan ayyukan alheri ga wasu babban maganin damuwa ne, a cewar binciken 2014.) Kuma yanzu zaku iya ƙara wani dalili don taimaka wa wasu cikin jerinku: mutane masu alfahari suna da ƙari, kuma mafi kyau, jima'i!

Da gaske. A cikin takarda da aka buga a cikin Jaridar British Psychology, mai ban dariya mai taken "Altruism yana hasashen nasarar mating a cikin mutane," masana kimiyya suna yin shari'ar cewa mutane masu kirki suna samun kwanciyar hankali sau da yawa. Masu bincike sun yi bincike kan mata 192 da maza 105, inda suka tambaye su sau nawa suke aikata halaye iri -iri kamar ba da jini, ba da gudummawar kuɗi don sadaka, da taimakon maƙwabci. Sannan, sun duba tarihin jima'i na kowane mutum da kansa. Ya bayyana cewa mutanen da suka zira kwallaye mafi girma a kan altruism suma sun sami ƙari a cikin zanen gado. (A cikin labarai masu jan hankali, anan shine Dalilin Gym ɗin Jima'i Fantasy ɗinku Gabaɗaya Ne.)

Mazan da ba su da gaskiya sun ba da rahoton samun ƙarin abokan hulɗa a cikin rayuwarsu fiye da ƙarancin sadaka, kuma maza da mata masu kirki a halin yanzu a cikin alaƙa sun ba da rahoton yin ƙarin jima'i a cikin kwanaki 30 da suka gabata. Tabbas, koyaushe akwai wasu kurakurai a cikin binciken da suka haɗa da halayen kai rahoton (zai iya zama mutane kawai yana cewa suna yin sadaka?), amma binciken da ya gabata ya gano cewa muna tsinkayar mutane masu son zama masu ƙima gaba ɗaya. Bugu da ƙari, masu binciken sun ce altruism yana da fa'idar juyin halitta tunda alama ce ta waje kuma bayyananniya cewa wani zai yi abokiyar zama mai kyau don samun jarirai.

Wannan shine duk ilimin kimiyya - magana don "alheri yana da zafi!" Kuma yana da ma'ana. Ba abin da ya sa mu firgita fiye da ganin wani yana wasa da jariri, yana tafiya da ɗan kwikwiyo, ko taimakon wata tsohuwa a kan titi. Miyagun maza? Za mu wuce.

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