Carrie Underwood ta Tattauna Muhawara Kan Layi Kan Haihuwa Bayan Shekaru 35

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Cikin RedbookTattaunawar murfin watan Satumba, Carrie Underwood ta tattauna sabon kundinta da rauni na baya-bayan nan, amma sharhin da ta yi game da tsarin iyali ya fi daukar hankali a duk gidan yanar gizon. "Ni 35 ne, don haka watakila mun yi asarar damarmu ta samun babban iyali," in ji ta mag. "Kullum muna magana game da tallafi da kuma yin hakan yayin da yaranmu ko yaranmu suka ɗan girma."

Ba ze zama wani abu ba ~ abu mai rikitarwa ~ abin faɗi, amma bayanin Underwood ya haifar da wasu shafuka masu sha’awa game da haihuwa. Wasu mutane sun yi musayar cewa suna tunanin sharhin Underwood kuskure ne. "Ya kamata ki sani taga haihuwanki ba'a rufe ba, abinda ya hanaki shine yanke shawara ko a'a, har yanzu kuna iya samun 'ya'ya masu lafiya. 35 bai tsufa ba, 35 bai makara ba, 35 yana da lafiya." mutum daya yayi tweeted.

"Carrie me yasa kike tunanin, a shekaru 35, taga taga ya rufe don samun wani yaro? Tabbas girma da kuka girma ba shi da sauƙi don samun ciki. Idan kuna so, ku sa ya faru!" wani ya rubuta. (Masu alaƙa: Carrie Underwood ta raba mafi kyawun Hotunan Aiki tare da Iyalinta)

Wasu sun zo kare Underwood. "Me yasa kowa ke ba Carrie Underwood zafi saboda ta ce tana damuwa game da haihuwa yayin da take da shekaru 35 ?? Ba kai ne likitan ta ba, ba ka sani ba ko tana da yanayin rashin lafiyar da ke sa ta wahala ta haifi yara," in ji wani mutum ya rubuta. "Carrie Underwood yayi daidai. Da zarar kun cika shekaru 35 ana daukar ciki yana da haɗari. Rashin yiwuwar rikitarwa ga jariri da mahaifiyar duka sun fi girma, "in ji wani.

Don a bayyane, Underwood bai ce mata ba ba zai iya ba da yara bayan 35, kawai ta ce ita may sun rasa damarta na samun a babba iyali. Ita da mijinta Mike Fisher a halin yanzu suna da ɗa guda. Masu sharhin da suka nuna cewa 35 ba su da girma don yin ciki suna da gaskiya, ko da yake. A cikin 'yan shekarun nan, Amurka ta ga karuwa a cikin matan da suka haifi ɗansu na farko bayan shekaru 35, wanda zai iya kasancewa a wani bangare na bayyanar ci gaban kiwon lafiya kamar IVF, daskarewar kwai, da kuma maye gurbinsu.

"Duk da ƙalubalen, mata da yawa sama da shekaru 35 na iya samun juna biyu masu lafiya da jarirai," a cewar Kwalejin Kwararru da Likitocin Mata (ACOG). (A nan akwai amsoshin duk tambayoyinku game da daskarewar kwai da haihuwa yayin da kuka tsufa.)

A gefe guda, masu tweeter waɗanda suka zo don kare ta su ma suna da ma'ana. An sani cewa haihuwa tana fara raguwa tun yana ɗan shekara 24 tare da raguwar saurin saurin da zarar mata sun kai tsakiyar 30s. "Haihuwa ba ta raguwa kwatsam," Mary Jane Minkin, MD, farfesa a fannin likitan mata da likitan mata a Makarantar Likita ta Yale, a baya ta fada Siffa. "Amma game da shekaru 35, za ku fara ganin raguwa a hankali, kuma a 40 mafi mahimmanci na raguwa. Ƙarƙashin gaba na gaba shine kimanin shekaru 43." A wasu kalmomi, Underwood ba ta da tushe don ba da shawarar rashin lafiyarta na samun ƙarin yara da yawa sun ragu. Mata masu juna biyu da suka haura shekaru 35 suma suna da babban damar samun jaririn da ke da lahani na haihuwa ko fama da ɓarna ko haihuwa, a cewar ACOG. Bugu da ƙari, matan da suka haura shekaru 35 na iya kamuwa da cutar preeclampsia, yanayin haɗari wanda ya sa Beyonce ta sami sashin gaggawa na C. (Hakanan shine yanayin da ya tilasta Kim Kardashian yin amfani da madadin ɗanta na uku.)

TL; DR? Kowane bangare yana da fassarar daban-daban na abin da Underwood ya ce, kuma akwai hujjoji a bayan kowane ma'ana mai inganci. Amma abu ɗaya a bayyane yake: Haihuwa da tsufa koyaushe za su kasance batu mai taɓawa-kuma mai ɗabi'a.

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